Its easy to create a wedding speech with mind mapping
The basic idea when you are mind mapping is that instead of writing out your speech in its entirety, you draw it in pictures. This naturally means that a mind map is just a sample of your speech, only in pictures or half sentences.
Here's a quick overview of how to create a Mind Map:
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Start your mind map by using a blank piece of paper and a set of colored pencils or markers.
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Draw your speech topic in the middle of the paper.
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Draw lines like branches coming out of it - one for the introduction, one for the conclusion, and one for each main point in your speech.
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Identify each line with a symbol or other picture that will help you to easily identify the point. If you can't think of a picture, label the line with a word.
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If you have many different sub-points to make, draw other lines branching out from your main points and repeat the process.
Here is a sample mind map that can be used for speeches. You dont have to understand it to get the idea of what we mean. As the diagram shows, each idea should be placed in a separate bubble all its own. It can be filled with pictures or whatever you need to use that will help you recall it later.
The mind mapping technique is also good to use when you are trying to remember family and friends names etc.
When it comes to the actual structure of your speech, here are some more tips to add that will truly let your speech be your own.
1. Take your time. You dont have to rush through your speech. Think about what you want people to know about your friend and his new wife, and what you wish for their future.
2. Let your guard down. Dont be afraid to let your emotions show. This is one of your good friends, if not your best friend, its ok to cry or let out your real feelings. This is one time when it is not only accepted but expected.
3. Be yourself. If you are a reserved person, trying to write a witty speech will not only make reciting it more difficult but it will also sound fake. You cant be sincere if you are not being yourself.